Can You Stop His Denial?

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 (If you don't know what this is here is help)A desperate wife sent this comic and serious request for help...she copied for me the beginning of a letter to her husband:"I was watching TV and the , and some people were using those strange … [Read more...]

“Don’t get near, I am emotionally unavailable and we will never connect…”

Emotionally unavailable partner? We understand!   Let’s imagine a person has been deeply wounded in childhood, with the results that he doesn’t believes that relationships work and that he can be loved, or respected by someone, and that … [Read more...]

Low self-esteem living with an emotionally unavailable spouse

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Do you feel now that you are reaching the bottom of your self esteem?  Living with someone who is usually withdrawn and detached from you is heavy punishment to your self-esteem. Either you have selected this person to share your life because you … [Read more...]

Are you still waiting for love from the emotionally unavailable man?

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Leave the emotionally unavailable man to himself and take responsibility for your emotional needs. You have been asking lots of questions about how to improve your love relationship; reading books and participating in forums where people gave … [Read more...]

Is Your Partner Emotionally Unavailable ?

If you have an emotionally unavailable spouse, does him make you feel starved?  We connect with others in this life using the attachment models we learned in our families. So, perhaps when you were growing up, you could marvel at the different ways … [Read more...]