Balancing trust with self-preservation is a very difficult balancing act….If you want to keep your trust on your husband’s intentions to treat you well and always defend your interests, then you can’t be second-guessing if he is doing passive aggression against you, right?
If you decide that is impossible to be for ever watchful, and then [...]
From all the correspondence, postings and requests we receive, the overwhelming majority are desperate wives complaining about their husbands. We have initiated this blog, which reaches sometimes 500 hits a day, to help those wives find ways of preserving their marriages and diminish or control the relationship pain so as to get to a place [...]
We have been talking about the difficult skills of “detaching” from the emotional impact caused by the passive aggression.
Detaching is observing the behavior without showing a lot of emotion. If you do not react strongly, you do not give the passive aggressive person the emotional control, nor do you give them the opportunity to turn the [...]
After doing a lot of online research, and having strong arguments with yourself, you had arrived to some unwanted conclusion, and it’s not pretty. Is it true? do you have to accept that you have a passive aggressive husband? Oh my!
And then, as you become more and more aware of being in a passive aggressive [...]
Although emotional abusers are not always out to destroy those around them, they are out to control them. Because they have their own ideas about what is right, and how they want things to be, they see themselves as enforcers of the “right way.”
Once you accept that you are in this world to control [...]
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