February 25, 2010 – 1:49 pm
Balancing trust with self-preservation is a very difficult balancing act….If you want to keep your trust on your husband’s intentions to treat you well and always defend your interests, then you can’t be second-guessing if he is doing passive aggression against you, right?
If you decide that is impossible to be for ever watchful, and then [...]
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Tagged blame, confusion, emotional dependence, expectations, frustrated, hidden anger, hurt, loneliness, love, passive aggressive marriage, rejection, sabotaging
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February 3, 2010 – 2:29 pm
From all the correspondence, postings and requests we receive, the overwhelming majority are desperate wives complaining about their husbands. We have initiated this blog, which reaches sometimes 500 hits a day, to help those wives find ways of preserving their marriages and diminish or control the relationship pain so as to get to a place [...]
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Also posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, assertiveness, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive definition, passive aggressive personality
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Tagged cold shoulder, communication, disengaged feeling, emotional dependence, frustrated, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive wife, put downs, rejection, resentment, silent partner, unhappiness
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January 18, 2010 – 1:25 am
We have been talking about the difficult skills of “detaching” from the emotional impact caused by the passive aggression.
Detaching is observing the behavior without showing a lot of emotion. If you do not react strongly, you do not give the passive aggressive person the emotional control, nor do you give them the opportunity to turn the [...]
January 12, 2010 – 5:33 pm
Did you ever wonder how to deal with your PA husband but had no one to turn for advice?
Or just wanted to get someone with an external perspective to advice you on how to approach a specific situation that has been troubling your mind for too long?
Or you wished to have someone from the inside, [...]
November 23, 2009 – 10:47 am
Did you ever wondered how to deal with your husband but had no one to turn for advice?
Or just wanted to get someone with an external perspective to advice you on how to approach a specific situation that has been troubling your mind for too long?
If that is the case, then we have news for [...]