February 3, 2012 – 12:56 pm
© Lela Lee All your life you’ve been trying to make it work. We all know that even good intentioned efforts can fail when you try to live with other people in love and harmony, and it’s natural to assume that differences will bring some frictions. Here, I want to let you in on a [...]
January 20, 2012 – 3:20 pm
WE ARE STUCK IN THIS DANCE: HERS HIS I feel let down, isolated, and lonely. If I confront you to get you to see what is hurting me and come back to me.. It Just Drives You Away, You became defensive and justify yourself. If I despair, you retreat even more Then I get [...]
By Neil Warner
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Also posted in healthy happy relationship, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, Relationship Repair
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Tagged appreciation, cold shoulder, communication, detachment, disengaged feeling, emotional needs, human needs, hurt, isolation, loneliness, silence
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January 2, 2012 – 3:46 pm
All the New Year Resolutions we hash out semi convinced at the big end of the year party have a common root…all stem from and connect with that ideal self that we all carry inside. Our “ideal person.” So here is the universal wish: “I want the new year to be the time when I [...]
December 5, 2011 – 3:01 pm
Confrontations don’t just magically stop happening! To handle conflict correctly and learn from past mistakes, partners need a protocol to manage life’s inevitable confrontations and they need to know how to do relationship repair. We don’t often think past getting into a relationship – but taking care of a relationship is just as important! Managing confrontations [...]
By Neil Warner
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Also posted in Relationship Repair
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Tagged appreciation, communication, control, emotional dependence, emotional needs, loneliness, love, marriage, relationship repair, self-esteem, unhappiness
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