February 17, 2010 – 7:34 pm
In a very kind letter, Rosy said:
“In my own way to learn detachment, there were several moments I do remember as very important for me:
The first thing I decided to do: I completely stopped opening a conversation with him about the future of our relationship.
Then, I completely stopped touching him or getting near him [...]
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Tagged confusion, emotional dependence, expectations, frustrated, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, resentment, sabotaging, silence, unhappiness
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February 3, 2010 – 3:23 pm
Let me tell you something…the deep wish under all this Valentine’s Day claptrap is something we don’t dare to mention the rest of the year:
TO HAVE A SECURE BUT EXCITING LOVE RELATIONSHIP!
How do you combine the two things?
Secure is boring….exciting is dangerous….so what gives?
For the rest of us, ensconced in a healthy but boring routine, [...]
February 3, 2010 – 2:29 pm
From all the correspondence, postings and requests we receive, the overwhelming majority are desperate wives complaining about their husbands. We have initiated this blog, which reaches sometimes 500 hits a day, to help those wives find ways of preserving their marriages and diminish or control the relationship pain so as to get to a place [...]
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Also posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive definition, passive aggressive personality
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Tagged cold shoulder, communication, disengaged feeling, emotional dependence, frustrated, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive wife, put downs, rejection, resentment, silent partner, unhappiness
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October 29, 2009 – 10:48 pm
Are you tired of waiting for your husband to apologize? Perhaps only for this time, only once but to really, really apologize sincerely now?
Well, is possible that you are never going to know what an open, valid and sincere apology looks like…if your passive aggressive partner is worth his salt, he will never accept [...]
August 27, 2009 – 11:39 am
The divide between emotional and rational styles to manage disputes are the main hidden factors of our conflicts. The lenses (emotional or rational) we apply to manage a confrontation with our loved one is usually a main contributor to the communication gap we produce and suffer.
Here is an online conversation between a poster in a [...]