You can spend years thinking only that your husband is “difficult” and finding support and relief in your family and friends when you need real support. Then, one day, someone asks you: “Did you notice that he always gives you this passive aggressive responses that leave you in the lurch? how do you cope with [...]
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Tagged confusion, disengaged feeling, expectations, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, self-esteem, unhappiness
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March 19, 2010 – 10:51 am
Here is a wonderful example of the technique of “DETACH WITH LOVE” mentioned by us in other postings…And, as an added bonus, you can see it more clearly because it is applied not to the husband, but to the mother-in-law. What else can you wish for? The three examples of detachment are here, in this [...]
January 18, 2010 – 1:25 am
We have been talking about the difficult skills of “detaching” from the emotional impact caused by the passive aggression. Detaching is observing the behavior without showing a lot of emotion. If you do not react strongly, you do not give the passive aggressive person the emotional control, nor do you give them the opportunity to turn [...]
January 12, 2010 – 5:33 pm
Did you ever wonder how to deal with your PA husband but had no one to turn for advice? Or just wanted to get someone with an external perspective to advice you on how to approach a specific situation that has been troubling your mind for too long? Or you wished to have someone from [...]
January 4, 2010 – 1:02 am
Amy Sutherland, an exotic animal trainer is offering her learnings training wild animals in captivity as transferable to manage your husband’s behavior. Even when this suggestion can appear as preposterous, there is much wisdom in this approach. If you are really at your wit’s end, why not to try this? The first step is to [...]
