If you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!Have you been sometimes daydreaming of giving your PA husband a spoonful of his own medicine? Are you really tired of balancing and compensating the day to day tasks he leaves undone? ever think of turning tables on him? This [...]
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After all those married years, one fine morning the view got projected into your vision, and you discovered the real name of this empty, cold and disappointing relationship. You understood that you have spent your married life in this barren state of mind that is a passive aggressive marriage. Lost are the initial illusions of [...]
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You can spend years thinking only that your husband is “difficult” and finding support and relief in your family and friends when you need real support. Then, one day, someone asks you: “Did you notice that he always gives you this passive aggressive responses that leave you in the lurch? how do you cope with [...]
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March 19, 2010 – 10:51 am
Here is a wonderful example of the technique of “DETACH WITH LOVE” mentioned by us in other postings…And, as an added bonus, you can see it more clearly because it is applied not to the husband, but to the mother-in-law. What else can you wish for? The three examples of detachment are here, in this [...]
January 18, 2010 – 1:25 am
We have been talking about the difficult skills of “detaching” from the emotional impact caused by the passive aggression. Detaching is observing the behavior without showing a lot of emotion. If you do not react strongly, you do not give the passive aggressive person the emotional control, nor do you give them the opportunity to turn [...]