About Neil Warner

Neil Warner is the CTO of Creative Conflict Resolutions. He offers strategies to heal difficult issues in a relationship, such as anger and passive aggression. His latest program, Stop Your Passive Aggression, offer a plan for action to change your life by eliminating passive aggressive behaviors from your interactions with your loved one.

Passive Aggression as a Defensive Skill?

Why using a defensive skill in a personal relationship? I now think passive aggression behavior is selected to be used as a defensive skill to protect against a controlling parent or person from the past. The child, unable to leave, or to confront, … [Read more...]

How to live with a narcissistic partner, I

  Are you asking yourself how to live with a narcissistic partner? We have been talking about concern for self and concern for others. In other words, self-focus and other focus. Any marriage is a yin and yang of this balance... Sometimes it … [Read more...]

Narcissistic Personality Signs

Do you happen to know a narcissistic personality?   In life, there is this big divide. The people in conflict resolution refer to it as self-orientation or community orientation. In short, it begs the question: Are you more interested in … [Read more...]

Can a passive aggressive person change his ways?

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How can a passive aggressive husband change his ways? As you continue to read our reflections here, perhaps you understand our basic concept: we think that passive aggressive behavior is a remnant from the past, a behavior that was perhaps necessary … [Read more...]

Dealing with a difficult husband? Here is help!

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All couples need to learn the fine art of keeping the marriage alive. It means, being cooperative and helpful, and not being a difficult husband! We bring from our own families some narcissistic traits that can be lethal to … [Read more...]