Comments on: Is it anger or desperation? http://passiveaggressivehusband.com/anger-desperation/ Sun, 05 Sep 2010 03:30:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: norafem http://passiveaggressivehusband.com/anger-desperation/comment-page-1/#comment-76 norafem Sat, 29 Aug 2009 05:00:48 +0000 http://passiveaggressivehusband.com/?p=239#comment-76 My husband and I have had always a very difficult relationship and I can relate 100% to how you describe the sad interaction of two people who escalate a dispute. Regardless of that, do I have to be the only person who makes a bridge between the two? I don't see this kind of husband to panic and suffer if I say I will go my own way. Does your husband walk away from you when you are upset about something? Does he twist the story around to demonstrate it be your fault? When confronted with an issue, does he change the subject and once again puts it back on you, so you feel guilty or responsible? I've been married 14 years and we have 3 beautiful boys but I've come to the realization that in order for me to find peace and a measure of companionship, I will need to separate. It is certainly a roller coaster dealing with this kind of man..waiting to hear your advice! (Sent by Kathie R. by email) My husband and I have had always a very difficult relationship and I can relate 100% to how you describe the sad interaction of two people who escalate a dispute. Regardless of that, do I have to be the only person who makes a bridge between the two? I don’t see this kind of husband to panic and suffer if I say I will go my own way.

Does your husband walk away from you when you are upset about something? Does he twist the story around to demonstrate it be your fault? When confronted with an issue, does he change the subject and once again puts it back on you, so you feel guilty or responsible?

I’ve been married 14 years and we have 3 beautiful boys but I’ve come to the realization that in order for me to find peace and a measure of companionship, I will need to separate.

It is certainly a roller coaster dealing with this kind of man..waiting to hear your advice!

(Sent by Kathie R. by email)

]]> By: Oscar Maintenr http://passiveaggressivehusband.com/anger-desperation/comment-page-1/#comment-75 Oscar Maintenr Thu, 27 Aug 2009 22:23:50 +0000 http://passiveaggressivehusband.com/?p=239#comment-75 No way! you are deadly wrong here...she needs to understand what is she doing to make him so upset, and needing to leave her...why women can't be more rational when they are fighting? they get emotional all the way and it becomes harder and harder to deal with them. Why is it so difficult for them to understand that crying and screaming gets them nowhere fast? No way! you are deadly wrong here…she needs to understand what is she doing to make him so upset, and needing to leave her…why women can’t be more rational when they are fighting? they get emotional all the way and it becomes harder and harder to deal with them. Why is it so difficult for them to understand that crying and screaming gets them nowhere fast?

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