Why is she so upset with me?

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Having her so upset with you is the wrong strategy! According to psychology research, we all use defense mechanisms...they are those mental tricks that are so handy to protect us from unwanted events...so we can deny, forget them, turn them upside … [Read more...]

7 Keys to grow your self-esteem

How to grow your self-esteem  Life demands a complicated balance...we are asked to care for the relationship, be ready to listen and understand our partner, and at the same time, coming almost last, is our selfgrowth. Why is this so? posponing … [Read more...]

5 TOOLS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE

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How to have a happy marriage? Sometimes, I get asked the formula for happiness. Marital happiness, I mean, not any other...and after so many posts mapping loneliness, mistrust and emotional abandonment, I feel that I can say something about the … [Read more...]

Can you have intimacy with respect?

 Having intimacy with respect means that you can trust the other person not to hurt you We are all people in development, with our own issues that can sometimes hurt others...not out of malice, but ignorance and lack of skills at containing each … [Read more...]

Warrior strategies to survive a passive aggressive marriage

To survive a passive aggressive marriage and keep your self-esteem high, you need a change of mindset FAIR WARNING: If you are a loving, tender and dedicated wife, who wants to have a loving marriage, why are you here? You'd better find another … [Read more...]